My true Father’s Day..

I don't celebrate fathers day anymore after a couple of years ago my dad chose to have a relationship with my ex husband over choosing to keep me as his daughter..that's the way this cookie crumbled, forcing me to make him choose a side that altered and effected the outcome for the rest of our lives.. it was in that moment … Continue reading My true Father’s Day..

#ifmywoundswerevisible

yesterday was WORLD NARCISSIST ABUSE AWARENESS DAY..all the haters can roll their eyes until their dizzy and pass out but this abuse is very real as real can be, its just extremely under the radar and covert creating traumatic invisible wounds that don't externally bleed.. I grew up in a home with adoptive parents that consisted of a mother who suffers from this personality disorder and a co … Continue reading #ifmywoundswerevisible

the cultish effect in speaking bullsh!t as a first language..

I stopped participating in the conversing art of bullshit a couple of years ago and got away from the "bullshit cult" I unintentionally belonged too in the process, REALLY!..we all know its a cultish language that's made up and full of empty vocabulary words that kool aids your brain to make you believe in something that is the farthest from the truth to hook line and … Continue reading the cultish effect in speaking bullsh!t as a first language..

THE MOTHERS DAY SHAFT..

so mothers day started off interesting to say the least..it all went down with a phone call from my teenage daughter not really wishing me a happy mothers day BUT instead asking me if at around 430 (we were picking them up at 130 from her dads) she could go with her father instead to his mothers day family BBQ..how ya like them apples.. my immediate response of rightful disappointment to her question was retaliated with the quickness … Continue reading THE MOTHERS DAY SHAFT..

I should have seen it coming this mean girl mentality

      I was watching "vanderhumps " the other night with my husband, and YES we completely watch that shit like the rest of you, when before our eyes it was like a "meangirls" moment of intense bitchieness where Katie the newest ring leader of the group, Kristen and Stasi were all ganging up on Sheana for simply talking to Lala at work in a … Continue reading I should have seen it coming this mean girl mentality