Yesterday was WORLD NARCISSIST ABUSE AWARENESS DAY.  All the naysayers & haters can roll their eyes until they’re dizzy & pass out,  but this abuse is extremely real mentally & emotionally as real can be.  It is disguised with smoke & mirrors, operating in a covert physiologically distrutive way,  hiding its marks within the emotional/ mental body creating traumatic invisible wounds that don’tContinue reading “#ifmywoundswerevisible”

the cultish effect in speaking bullsh!t as a first language..

  I stopped participating in the conversing art of bullshit a couple of years ago and got away from the “bullshit cult” I unintentionally belonged too in the process, REALLY!..we all know its a cultish language that’s made up and full of empty vocabulary words that kool aids your brain to make you believe in something that is the farthest from the truth to hook lineContinue reading “the cultish effect in speaking bullsh!t as a first language..”


so mothers day started off interesting to say the least..it all went down with a phone call from my teenage daughter not really wishing me a happy mothers day BUT instead asking me if at around 430 (we were picking them up at 130 from her dads) she could go with her father instead to his mothers day family BBQ..how ya like them apples.. my immediate response of rightful disappointment to her question was retaliated with the quicknessContinue reading “THE MOTHERS DAY SHAFT..”

I should have seen it coming this mean girl mentality

I was watching “vanderhumps ” the other night with my husband, and YES we completely watch that shit like the rest of you, when before our eyes it was like a “meangirls” moment of intense bitchieness where Katie the newest ring leader of the group, Kristen and Stasi were all ganging up on Sheana for simply talking to Lala at work in a prior episode…AS IF Katie hasContinue reading “I should have seen it coming this mean girl mentality”