now that’s my man..happy 7 yr. anniversary

I met a boy so many forgotten years ago, who I never suspected or imagined would end up becoming my husband so many grown up years later..the crazy thing about love is, that no matter how many romance novels or movies you watch, when it happens to you, YOU are never truly prepared for it.. sometimes you areContinue reading “now that’s my man..happy 7 yr. anniversary”


so mothers day started off interesting to say the all went down with a phone call from my teenage daughter not really wishing me a happy mothers day BUT instead asking me if at around 430 (we were picking them up at 130 from her dads) she could go with her father instead to his mothers day family ya like them apples.. my immediate response of rightful disappointment to her question was retaliated with the quicknessContinue reading “THE MOTHERS DAY SHAFT..”

but fuck them, 6 years later and LOVE STILL WON!

    its our 6 YEAR ANNIVERSARY today WOOOOO HOOOO and it has been quite the joy ride to get here while we are still standing strong..i think we have finally put to rest all the naysayers who didn’t believe or approve of our decision, and lost those who weren’t willing to get on board or really make it past the first destination to be frank with our crazy magical onceContinue reading “but fuck them, 6 years later and LOVE STILL WON!”


I had a much needed, over the maximum amount, over due held in needed break down cry today.  I was sparked by a phone call from a reletive that was the tipping point and the stick that hit the camels back or whatever that saying is. I exploded my pain filled sobbing tears all over the phone to my husband (poor guy) whoContinue reading “YOU ARE THE REFLECTION OF THE COMPANY YOU KEEP.”

your secret society from the rest of the world

there is something special about the relationship you are able to create with your partner that is beyond any connection you have with the others that are in your is a sacred experience that unifies the two of you together creating a blissful place you both share on profound levels that others are not privilegeContinue reading “your secret society from the rest of the world”