#ifmywoundswerevisible

yesterday was WORLD NARCISSIST ABUSE AWARENESS DAY..all the haters can roll their eyes until their dizzy and pass out but this abuse is very real as real can be, its just extremely under the radar and covert creating traumatic invisible wounds that don't externally bleed.. I grew up in a home with adoptive parents that consisted of a mother who suffers from this personality disorder and a co … Continue reading #ifmywoundswerevisible

the American oxymoron “happy memorial day”..

I caught myself the other day at work being like every other ignorant American and wished my client a "happy" memorial day..i retracted my statement immediately with a look of apology thinking what an oxymoron that is and how truly insensitive it is to our people and country, as if we have been brainwashed to make it about … Continue reading the American oxymoron “happy memorial day”..

The art in healing..

ive cried a lot lately, for so many different reasons I would really need to write a book to convey all its glorious which has been a thought I have played with for a long time now..I just dont seem to want to hold my shit in anymore (this working with crystals is really powerful), breaking apart emotionally almost as a form of … Continue reading The art in healing..

Apron Strings | the unabbreviated enthusiasts’s show

Great talk about when to let go of your kids, along with sharing a break through I have had emotionally in my own personally healing journey! — Read on www.spreaker.com/user/unabbreviatedenthusiasts/apron-strings

All About Prince! | the unabbreviated enthusiasts’s show

Don’t You Just Love Prince? We Do! So we decided to invite our friend to join in our podcast and talk about this magical artist who's music will forever remain relevant past the grave! — Read on www.spreaker.com/user/unabbreviatedenthusiasts/all-about-prince

over time i became a scapegoat survivor..

  i grew up in an adopted dysfunctional family having a narcissist as a mother.. out of the 3 of us, one of us was designated to play the role of the scapegoat otherwise referred to as the black sheep of the family..im pretty sure i willingly took turns playing that role with my younger sibling passing it back and forth whenever it was convenient and suited … Continue reading over time i became a scapegoat survivor..

why its ok to be selfish for your own self care..

    sometimes you have to be selfish (you read that correctly) in a beautifully healthy way, which goes against the nature of most people and personalities regardless of how you were raised..even the word SELFISH alone probably makes some of you feel utterly uncomfortable because it has such a negative connotation surrounding it.. I used to think it was such … Continue reading why its ok to be selfish for your own self care..

THE MOTHERS DAY SHAFT..

so mothers day started off interesting to say the least..it all went down with a phone call from my teenage daughter not really wishing me a happy mothers day BUT instead asking me if at around 430 (we were picking them up at 130 from her dads) she could go with her father instead to his mothers day family BBQ..how ya like them apples.. my immediate response of rightful disappointment to her question was retaliated with the quickness … Continue reading THE MOTHERS DAY SHAFT..

so Im asking for your help, my beloved universe and angelic helpers

  dear universe and my entrusted heavenly angels, its been a while since I last wrote you, and now that mercury retrograde is coming to an end (thank god) I thought this would be the most perfect time for me to have a chat with you all..a lot has been going on in my life lately more so than … Continue reading so Im asking for your help, my beloved universe and angelic helpers

i can still remember clearly when the world got milli vanillied

        I watched the Grammys a couple of nights ago for the first time in years, simply because my husband was busy doing office work and my daughter was facetiming her posy in her bedroom which left me alone with the remote control on the couch..i should have picked up my book and put the stereo on instead … Continue reading i can still remember clearly when the world got milli vanillied